What amazes me the most about all this "stuff" is just how much of it there is, and this is the stuff that people don't want.
Clearly, my standards are rather low, but taken in another way....I am very easy to please. I am eternally grateful for any and all clothes that show up for kids because with 5 of them (and all of them true "farm kids"), clothes go by fast. Miscellaneous wood is another one that is very handy to have people drop off....you just never know when you will need to build a shed or put together a project that may require odd pieces of wood or when people will drop by for an impromptu bon fire.
The worst part is that we start to take on a "pack rat" mentality and have to periodically jettison some of the excess cargo that builds up. The biggest times that we have had to do this, of course, is when moving from place to place. We moved so much for a while that we had it down to a science. "Three moves equals a burn" was a common phrase in our house, and we were pared down to only the necessities. Needless to say, when you move to a farm with excess out buildings, the stuff starts to pile up in a big way. My mother always threatened that, when she moved off their farm, that she was just going to lock the door and light the match. Having recently moved my parents off their farm.....this would have been a good idea.
I really have nothing against products made in China, they make the products that Americans either don't want to make, or American companies don't want to have to pay so much to have made. However, I try to keep my purchases as close to home as I can. It isn't easy, but once in a while you find a company that still produces a product in America. They aren't inexpensive, that much is for sure, but they are paying American workers wages that support the local economy and they are very often socially conscious companies that make the effort to produce a quality product while simultaneously creating jobs. Imagine what our country would be like if these companies were the ones that we shopped at instead of the Wal Marts? America has essentially become the land of the service industry - manufacturing has become a thing of the past for many, which is unfortunate. Not everyone is cut out for service industries and I sometimes wonder what will happen when China decides that it is tired of supplying us with our plastic Happy Meals toys and 50 inch television screens? Will we have any idea how to produce stuff for ourselves? And will anyone be able to afford it? When I can't find an American product, I buy second hand if possible - yes, it probably came from China, but it is sold not once, but twice (or more) by local sales people.
Believe it or not, there are times that I think back to the stories that my grandparents told me about the Depression and not having so much stuff, and I am somewhat envious. A time when people were all working together to exist in whatever capacity they could, using what they had on hand, relying on neighbors for help when needed. As much of a struggle as those times were, I never once heard a story from either set of grandparents that was necessarily sad. They were stories of dances and playing cards with friends and sitting on fenders of their cars in the middle of town on Saturday nights talking to each other while all the kids ran around and played kick the can. Crazy stories of jobs that my grandpa did to make ends meet - like moving houses or driving a load of pigs to market when the truck tipped over and all the pigs got out. Now what are our stories? "Went to work, came home, ate something in front of the t.v. and then went to bed." ....talk about the great depression.
I think there is a movement afoot - slow but starting to grow - of people that are starting to realize some of this as well, that sometimes less is more, being creative and ingenuitive gives more a sense of accomplishment than being rich does, and sometimes talking and having dinner with neighbors rather than watching the latest episode on t.v. leads to memories shared. Maybe it is due to "The Great Recession" that we are in right now, in which people just don't have the funds to replace or buy things, but I like to imagine that maybe....just maybe, we are waking up to the idea that want and need really are two different things and sometimes, when the wants can't be had, it allows a little space for something else to come in instead - creativity, interaction, memories made. Maybe that is what my grandmother really meant, "Waste not. Want not."
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